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Authors Varuna Shunglu and Ken Spillman tapped into ancient wisdom and made it relevant for teenagers in a new book 'More Than I Am: Yoga Wisdom for 21st Century Teens. Here’s more about the book…


 Not long ago, terms like ‘stress’, ‘anxiety’, ‘grief’ were associated with grown-ups. But look around and you will find that the teenagers and children are no stranger to anxiety and feel pressured.

The teens are stressed about trying to fit in, scoring top grades and have a strained relation with food. What about exercise and running around with friends? Really, who has time for that?

It’s a tough situation with a simple solution. “Yoga, mindfulness, breath,” says Varuna Shunglu. Shunglu with Ken Spillman has co-authored More Than I Am – Yoga Wisdom for 21st Century Teens.

An international yoga teacher, Shunglu says “More Than I Am was born from a deep need to speak directly to kids, giving them tools to build resilience and a sense of self.”

The tone of the book is not preachy and deliberately so. “As a writer of books for young people, the biggest mistake you can make is to ‘talk down’. Kids hate that! – and they are justified in hating it because they are not developing intelligence… They already have that!” adds Spillman.

The book published by HarperCollinsChildren’sBooks includes quotes, illustrations, photographs, recipes, Q&A section and activities. Telling us how More Than I Am was conceptualised, Shunglu, who is also a wellness entrepreneur, says, “Ken and I worked for over a year on putting the book together with illustrations et al. I was working as a health counselor with a school in Kolkata during Covid and speaking to parents and kids online everyday helped us add a lot of real life challenges individuals and families went through at the time in the book. I was working with special educators and we were on call with parents and children of different grades from kindergarten to 12th for different issues -- from low energy, to grief etc. Counseling with the team really opened my eyes to the subtleties that affect children and the great impact our words and actions can have on them.”

Shunglu and Spillman discussed topics that were close to their hearts such as mental health specifically focusing on children, mindfulness and breath. “Often their experiences at home and school leave children feeling unloved and anxious. In the book we have included many parent-children activities that can build trust and establish a sense of safety between the child and their environment, beginning by helping them understand themselves first,” she adds.  

Author-speaker Spillman observes, “Looking back, it’s clear to me that I suffered from anxiety and depression as a teenager, even though people saw me as confident and successful. Sport was important to me and from that I learnt many useful traits – relaxation, mental rehearsal, focus, goal setting, discipline, the concept of personal bests. Later, as a swimming coach, I observed teens closely and had a lot of in-depth conversations with them.”

More Than I Am has been designed in such a manner that it can be integrated into a school/ class curriculum from 8-12 years of age. Although it may seem that the book is addressed to urban teenagers, the author says that the tips shared in it are commonly practised in non-metros families.

“Parents telling their children, ‘Thande pani se subah nahana chaiye’ and the science behind it, or old practices of ‘Kulla’ or cold water on your mouth, tongue removing Ama or toxins is relevant. Our ancient wisdom exists in subtle layers in society. It becomes apparent if we take the time to discover this treasure,” points out Shungulu, adding, “The book speaks as much to the parent as it does to the children. It suggests innumerable ways one could engage with their youngsters.”

One of the activities in the book is a 21 day pledge to get the children to focus on their daily task coupled with ‘abhyasa’ and ‘meal’. When asked what sort of activities have been planned to get more teens to be a part of the health movement and stay consistent, the author says, “We have actually had some really amazing test runs and we are planning a full-fledged Sankalpa challenge soon.”


(This interview first appeared in Dimdima magazine)

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